I’m just starting to be interested in guys. I’m a virgin, and would like to stay this way until I get married. Any thoughts on how to keep guys at an arm’s distance? And how to keep my own self-control?
Step one is to have an honest talk with guys you start seeing to let them know how you feel about sex before marriage. Assuming they respect your position, everything else will be a breeze.
As for how to keep your self-control, there are many things you can enjoy doing with a guy without intercourse sex. Here are a few ideas:
* Home cooked dinners
* Kissing – lots and lots of kissing
* Clothes-on massages
* Long hugs
* Splashing in a pool.
Have fun thinking up your own.